i-love-balsam: August 2013

Wednesday, 21 August 2013

Love Phrases

There are many ways to interpret all of the love phrases that have recently come about or been there for years. To explain to a person how they should view one is almost unfair. There may not be a "right" or "wrong" way to look at any of the thousands of wonderful little expressions put together with words to express how a person feels at the time or how one may have another feeling at a different time. These wondrous quotes of a feeling called love phrases can mean the world and sum up everything for the emotions felt at any given time or place. Or may mean absolutely nothing at another time or even bring about a negative feeling when the emotions are not in a good place for loving feelings.

Some may feel that every expression of love or the little heart felt love phrases are perfect and all mean the world to them, with all in their world being or feeling great and wonderful. While one could toss out something a simple as "love hurts" and they would totally disagree because they feel that their love is wonderful there is nothing about a good love that should EVER hurt. To them this may be true; however someone in an abusive relationship will say that love does hurt and another just in the midst of a break-up or one who has just lost someone very close may also agree. This said; love phrases mean what they mean to any person at any time and feeling any emotion be it positive or negative. It is the interpretation of love phrases that make them what they are and it is not what a person is told that they are or what they should mean to them. Make your own mind up and then believe and live it to the fullest.

Here is another one of these love phrases just as an example; "If you love somebody, let them go, for if they return, they are always yours. And if they don't, they never were." Look at that for a minute or two and maybe even reread it a couple of times. The first thought here is how beautiful the outcome of this little love phrase may be for giving a person in your life the freedom from you to just walk away and then come back if they really decide that being with you is what they will choose forever. Sounds pretty nice and that is agreed however; if it is looked at another couple of ways it might not be just a beautiful.

Love needs to be shared to be fulfilled by any two people and if one needs to be "let go" they were never sure in the first place and needed to see if there was anything better out there and then came to the conclusion that you are the best they can do and decided to come back. The other part of this is that they were let go and upon arriving back will stay forever. How could this be known? It may mean that this time they did not find anything better and may still continue to look. In these love phrases and so many others it is best to reflect on them in the most positive fashion so that you may then apply them to a situation and that it may help with or allow an explanation. In any situation the love phrases worked for the people who came up with them in the first place and might not match your situation, if this seems the case come up with you own or accept whatever meaning that follows what someone else said.

Secret Love

Love Pictures

Falling in love is very beautiful thing and, you need to capture every moment and save it. You can do exactly these using pictures of love. Pictures of love are shots taken to ensure that you savor the moments and keep a piece of memory that will ensure that you preserve all the best times in your life. Pictures of love are very personal and they need to be captured in a way that the emotion will flow or reflect. When you get married, you take many pictures of love. It is a moment that is worth every film. This is a time where joy abounds and I cannot imagine life without pictures. You do not have to be married to share such experiences. Take pictures when you go out with your boyfriend or girlfriend. It really does not matter the venue you are at. You will certainly treasure them for a long time. If you want to get inspired by such pictures, it will be very helpful to go online and see some of the best collections of pictures. You do not have to be the world's best photographer to tell a tale of love. A couple which is in love will always glow and make the picture worthwhile. Therefore, this is the main purpose of such photos.

They can also prove to be very sentimental and, often times reminding us of different people and places with overwhelming nostalgia. However, when you have great pictures with a partner who you are separated to, they can become a great source of sorrow and disappointment. However, most pictures will inspires us and remind us of good times. Therefore, I can not overemphasize on importance of the pictures. You know what they say; a picture will speak a thousand words. There is something very artistic about them that will only require your silent stare and the love story behind it will be something beautiful and inspiring. The next time you plan to spend time with your loved one, it is wise that you plan for a photo opportunity. Pictures are the greatest assets that we have and, their value surpasses all the sentiments we can ever have. It is usually helpful for people to give the camera to somebody else so that they can devote their emotions to each other as the moment is captured.

Pictures will have a way of preserving time and, it will be helpful to have a professional do it for you. Most holiday spots or recreational facilities have cameramen ready to do the job for you. Taking your own pictures is great but, you want a third party to do it so that you can draw your emotions to your moment. There is so much to talk about and, I think that all photos taken are about love and community. When friends decide to come together, they want to have something to remind them of their unity. Pictures play this and more roles in society. Therefore, if you wish to take your own photos, invest in good quality and, your moments will have the same quality as the love you share.

Love Girls

Why guys love girls?

Girls are one of the best things in life --- almost every guy will admit this fact. Guys are into girls --- including those who say they're not into girls. They can lie about that, I swear. However, even though guys are, naturally, into girls, they still have certain preferences when it comes to someone they will actually like. You need to understand the concept that men, like women, have standards as well. And most of the time, they rely to the signals that you send them before the green light flashes and it's their cue to finally approach you. It's actually never that hard to attract a guy. To make it easier for you, here are the seven reasons why girls love guys --- and finally know the things he totally loves about you:

Because you're sweet and lovable. Hey, that's what girls are made of! When a guy thinks about a girl he particularly likes, he instantly feels good. Most often than not, it is followed by a feeling of misery when a guy realizes he can't be with her (but that's a topic for another time). All in all, it's always great if you show your girly side --- men just find that very hard to resist.
Because you always look and smell good. We all know we girls love to prep up and retouch and all that stuff --- and it can have a lot advantages too. Of course, it's always great to just be simple and carefree but it won't hurt if you try to spray a bit of cologne and put color in your cheeks sometimes, too.
Because you get happy over little things. One of the best things about being a girl is that we have a soft heart. Most of us, that is. And guys just find this completely adorable. When you get happy over a rainbow or because of a cute puppy, guys just have an instant urge to give you a big warm hug.
Because you're simple and down-to-earth. Guys always have issues with women who have has a tendency to be high maintenance. You won't go out to dinner if it's not in an expensive restaurant or if you're having a bad hair day --- come on, it's not the end of the world. Guys would appreciate it if you take it easy.
Because you're confident. You know how to carry yourself well and is not scared to show who you really are. Being confident immediately makes you more beautiful and sexier. You'd rather tell him about your opinions and listen to his as well, instead of acting dumb and stupid (which some girls would think cute). Not.
Because you show that you can take care of yourself. Independence is another instant turn on to men --- sure, you're cute and adorable and all that but that doesn't mean you need someone to babysit you as well. Show that you can take care of yourself and he'll be more inspired to take care of you.
Because you're cute and don't pretend to be someone else. Being your absolute true normal self is always a great way to attract a man. It means you don't try too hard to impress him and you're actually giving him the option to like you for being you. And nothing else can be more beautiful than that.

So why does guy's love girl's? Pretty simple isn't it? The answer is right there all along. Just be your absolute adorable self and guy's will be the one's approaching you. It's never hard to be liked. You must, however, like yourself first. Everything else will just follow.

Lost Love

I think about lost love a lot. The experience of lost love in past relationships is like a learning experience for me from which I try to learn as much as I can, so I never repeat that situation again. Lost love gives insight and understanding. Instead of wallowing in misery, I try to move forward with the new knowledge.

Lost love has happened a few times to me, as I'm sure it has to many people. Each time, it would feel like agony, my grief wearing on me like fire. I would feel like my love was gone forever and I would never find love again. Of course, I was always wrong. I would move forward, sometimes reluctantly, but always finding another love that would be stronger for my past experiences of love that I lost.

To quote from a famous movie, "Life finds a way." What everyone needs to remember concerning lost love is that, like everything else, love has its own lifespan. Whenever I lost love, I had to remember that some lifespans are longer than others, and accepting it helped me move forward with my life. To experience joy again was the result of learning how to make sense of what had happened when I lost love.

Looking back over love that was lost and seeing that the lifespan of each of these events was actually longer than the one gone before it made me realize that with each experience of it, I was able to fine tune and improve the relationships each time, each time making them stronger than the time before. It may not have felt like a positive thing at the time, but I look back now and realize those were times of positive growth.

As with many people, every time I had the experience of lost love, I had the feeling that I would never again feel love, that it was gone forever. And of course, I was always wrong. I would find happiness again and joy. But at the time, happiness and joy would seem impossible to ever have again. I would move on, and eventually understand that each of these experiences made me stronger and taught me much about myself.

It became quite apparent to me that, even though I had lost love once, I would be able to have it again. I was not pre-ordained for loneliness for the rest of eternity, even though it might have felt that way at the time.

I came to realize that, with age and wisdom, relationships became stronger and lasted longer. The lifespan of a relationship grew, and had more power and influence in my life. The experience of love that was lost simply became a stepping stone for growth.

If you have lost love, do not let it bog you down. By understanding that it ultimately translates into positive growth, you will carry forward with strength and willpower, able to anticipate a brighter future with a resurgence of love, either rekindled from the old, stronger and better, or brand new with all the hopes and dreams of young love.

Pink Love

Wearing a particular colour can affect your moods, feelings and emotions. They influence your actions and how you respond to people, situations and ideas. They also affect how others perceive you. The colour you wear can influence people around you in many ways, many we don't even understand.

Wearing the colour pink can make you feel happier, help attract a lover into your life.

Colour and its use and meaning have intrigued and fascinated people over the centuries. Pink in particular has long been associated with love, affection, warmth and compassion. Wearing any shade of the colour pink is said to be very attracting of feelings of love, and gentle affection from others.

Expressions such as "feeling in the pink" and being "tickled pink" convey a positive connotation to this colour. So if you're feeling blue, down in the dumps, need to attract a soul mate, or just want to feel good about yourself -- then start wearing more pink!

One shade or other of the colour pink seems to suit and flatter all skin tones. Fair-haired blondes tend to look best in baby pink and softer shades of candy pink, whereas darker skin tones can wear vibrant fuchsia and cerise and look fabulous.

Everyone is guaranteed to look good in at least one shade of pink.

Finding your perfect shade of Pink

Finding the perfect shade of pink for you is simple. Visit a clothing store, select as many shades of pink clothing as you can find. The clothing item, size and design does not matter at this stage, it is the colour you need to focus on. Hold one at a time each shade of pink clothing in front of you while looking in the mirror. Some shades of pink may make you look washed out or drained of colour. Other shades will make your eyes look lifeless and dull. Look carefully at your face and if your eyes sparkle, your cheeks blush pink and your whole face lights up then you have the right shade of pink for you!

Start wearing your perfect shade of pink and wait for the compliments, attention and affection from others to flow to you. More than any other colour, pink is renowned as a colour that can attract a potential partner. Wear something in pink if you want to attract a lover.

Wearing pink is also a natural way to reduce stress, become more positive, and help alleviate feelings of depression, doom and gloom. It's a natural uplifting colour and generates warm feelings.

Using the colour pink for clothing, decorating your home, or just enjoying this colour within nature, will help you attract more love into your life. This can be love for yourself and raising your self-esteem, or love and affection from others.

Choosing Pink as a Favourite Colour

Everyone loves to be loved, but if you tend to choose pink as your favourite colour it often shows a craving for love. This can be a need to increase your own self-love or a need to attract love from others. Perhaps those around you have not been as affectionate, caring or attentive as you want them to be. You need to feel wanted, cherished and most of all loved, to be the best person you can be.

The Magic of Colour

The colour pink is connected with the zodiac sign of Aquarius and the planet Venus.

Pink is also connected to the Lovers Tarot card.

Colour has wonderful properties and influence, and the colour pink is particularly important for attracting love. Wear pink and carry around a pink crystal -- for maximum attraction!

Love Life

Cute Love Quotes

Is your heart bursting forth with love? Want to shout out to the whole world about how sweet your love is? Cute love quotes will help you to express loving thoughts about love, and as well as make you laugh with hilarity.

Whether you've just fallen head over heels in love, at the beginning stage of your relationship, or you just want to bask in the joy of your love, let these cute love quotes reflect your romantic and humorous side.

Let these humorous quotes about love give you something funny to smile about. Share these quotes with your family and friends so that they have something to smile about too.

There's many ways to bring joy and fun to your love relationship. Sending a bouquet of roses with a loving message when your lover is feeling down is romantic. Sending a love poem or writing one yourself is a hugely romantic gesture. Writing a wonderful love letter works also. Using a thesaurus and picking out descriptive words to describe the best sides of your sweetheart work amazingly well too.

Another method is to use cute love quotes in your Valentine's Day cards, emails and messages to bring a certain playful tone into your relationship. Make your girlfriend or boyfriend feel loved and cherished.

Add a dash of romance with these quotes and simply let the warmth of cute love quotes envelope you.

List of 10 Best Cute Love Quotes

1) "Other men have seen angels, But I have seen thee, And thou art enough." - G. Moore

2)"I'm not rushing into being in love. I'm finding fourth grade hard enough." - Regina 'Age 10'

3) "I was nauseous and tingly all over. I was either in love or I had smallpox." - Woody Allen

4) "A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous." - Ingrid Bergman

5) "I married the first man I ever kissed. When I tell this to my children, they just about throw up." - Barbara Bush

6) "Gravitation can not be held responsible for people falling in love." - Albert Einstein

7) "We don't believe in rheumatism and true love until after the first attack." - Marie E. Eschenbach

8) "Women are made to be loved, not understood." - Oscar Wilde

9) "At the touch of love everyone becomes a poet." - Plato

10) "Love is like an hour glass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties." - Jules Renord